Keeping Yourself and Your Children
Safe on the Internet
 
The internet is a network of millions of computers that are all hooked together so they can communicate with one another.  It can be a great place to play games, learn interesting facts, and talk to people who share your interests.  But getting around the Internet is a lot like getting around in the real world.  You need some safety rules to guide you on your way. 
 
·           The Internet is Interactive.  You can use it to communicate with other people.
·           The Internet is open to everyone.  People can say just about anything they want.
·           Other Internet users might not respect your privacy.  If you’re not careful, the messages you send can give information about yourself that you might not want people to have.
 
Some basic Internet definitions:
 
E-Mail – Sending and receiving electronic messages is the most popular online activity.  It’s a quick and easy way to stay in touch with friends and family, including people who are far away.
 
Newsgroup – A newsgroup is a message board for people with shared interests.  There are newsgroups about everything from pets, to children’s books.  You can post new articles on a newsgroup or reply to existing ones.
 
Chat Room – A chat room is an electronic “place” where lots of people can talk together at the same time.  Unlike a newsgroup, a chat room happens in “real time.”  What you read on the screen is what people are saying right now.
 
Safety tips for parents and guardians:
 
·           Talk with your children about setting rules for Internet use.  Decide together when they can go online, for how long, and what areas they can visit.
 
·           There are good and bad places to visit on the Internet.  Some web sites or links within a site might include material unsuitable for children.  Make sure that your child tells you if they encounter such a site.
 
·           Emphasize to your child that they are never to give out personal information (such as your name, home address, phone number, password, credit card number, or school) without your permission.
 
·           Check the postings to a newsgroup your child may be communicating with before you allow them to spend time there.
 
·           If your child’s screen name contains part of their name or gives other personal information, such as age or address, have them choose a different screen name when using a chat room.
 
·           Tell your child never to answer a message that makes them feel threatened, confused, or uncomfortable.  Have them end the communication immediately and notify you or an available adult.
 
·           Never, ever, allow your child to arrange a face-to-face meeting with someone they meet online. 
 
·           Advise your child never to accept anything that a stranger sends over the Internet, including e-mail, files, or the address for a web site.  If they receive a message from a stranger, they should delete it without opening it.
 
·           When your child informs you of inappropriate sites or actions, contact your Internet Service Provider (ISP) or the company that created the material.
 
·           Spend time online together until you are assured that your child understands the potential dangers, and how to handle difficult situations.